5 Things I like to do as a Daddy

Have you ever wondered what other Daddys do? I know I have, and I’ve even watched YouTube videos and read posts just to find out. So I felt like a little list of things I like to do as a Daddy would help anyone searching for such a thing.

Keep in mind though that everyone is an individual and you may not want to do the things I do, or even agree with things I say. That’s okay, we all have different approaches. That being said, you may enjoy all the things I put on here and decide to adopt them into your lifestyle also! And that’s okay!

I hope, for whatever reason you’re here, that you find some use out of this list. So here are my five things I like to do as a Daddy:

1. Be available to be contacted by my Little

This is SO important to me. You have committed yourself to a Little. Therefore you should (within reason: i.e. work permitting) always be reachable by your Little. Your Little needs to feel safe and cared for, wanted and loved. Being able to be in contact often will only serve to strengthen any relationship and maintain the connection developed between you to as Daddy and Little.

2. Engaging in activities with my Little

Whether this be doing a painting, colouring in an activity book, watching a film, going for a walk, or having a tickle time; joining in with an activity that your Little wants to do is important. They are inviting you into their space because they want to have you there with them. Little space is a beautiful time for watch and learn as a Daddy, you can see what stimulates your Little and be involved with their activities with them. Thats a privilege any Daddy should be grateful for.

3. Having a set Routine for my Little

I have a routine set with my Little. A time she should wake up, a time she should go to bed. How many times to brush her teeth, how many showers she should have in a week and a list of chores, both daily and monthly. This helps our lifestyle stay structured, it also helps her know what I expect of her and how she can follow it. This also grants her the ability to earn rewards by being a good girl and sticking to her routines, while it also leaves room for improvements and punishments should she be lax on her adherence to the schedules. A routine is a great way to keep structure and familiarity in your DDLG lifestyle and I highly recommend it.

4. Affection with my Little

This feels obvious but there is a deeper reason. To connect with someone physically is one of the most emotionally rewarding acts you can have. In a DDLG relationship, the Daddy and the Little have a closer bond than most. The Little has submitted themselves to their Daddy through acts of love, trust, need and admiration. The Daddy has committed himself to his Little by way of caring, love, protection and development towards his Little. It’s an entwining of two people who need one another. To combine this with acts of physical affection really does forge a deep bond and relationship between the two parties. I often find myself in deep need of just hugs and closeness with my little one. It’s a craving that can last all day until satisfied. It’s not always a sexual need as a DDLG relationship is not just about sex (unless yours is, then good for you!), it’s about caregiving and loving, protection and safety, learning and development, and just physical affection in any form is perfect.

5. Being with my Little in the big world

This one may sound weird, and potentially, it is. I love going out with my Little in public places and letting her explore and be herself. This is in parks, shopping centres, restaurants etc. She feels safe and protected when she is with me and this allows her to be free and ‘Little’ whenever she likes. She can be in her Littlespace while we are out and it’s adorable for me to watch and even better for me to be a part of. It makes me genuinely so happy to watch her running through shops showing me all the things she thinks is pretty or fun, because knowing she feels safe enough to be herself wherever she wants to be makes me realise I am doing the right thing as her Daddy.

Thank you for reading these. I hope they’ve given you a bit of an insight into both me and a lifestyle of a Daddy!

What is being a Daddy about?

So this is an interesting subject. Being a Daddy, and the reasons behind becoming a Daddy, differs from person to person. Some become a Daddy for the exercising of control over another individual, some for the sexual adventures within the bounds of a DDLG relationship, and some because they simply have a desire to look after another human being. There are many possible reasons to why someone has become a Daddy, but ultimately, your reason is the only one that should matter to you.

I discovered my Daddy tendencies by chance, through conversation and sexual play, I realised that the idea of looking after a dependant was something I inherently enjoyed. It was an odd discovery, but when I started to realise exactly what it was, everything else began to make sense. I looked back at different moments in my life and what I enjoyed within them, and it all began to point to the same conclusion: I am a Daddy.

One of the biggest loves for me as a Daddy is the caregiving side to the relationship. When my Little needs me to look after her, its so fulfilling. She wants me because I am her Daddy and I give to her the things she requires, such as safety, protection, love, attention and more. I love moments when she comes to me and calls me Daddy because she needs me to help her, I really feel like I have a purpose to fulfil. To have a Little and to be responsible for their welfare is a massive honour in my eyes, as to have another person give themselves up to you because they trust you and want you to be a part of their life is the ultimate act of devotion.

Because of the dynamics of our relationship, I am responsible for the way in which my Little functions on a day to day basis. She requires a lot of love and attention and I am more than happy to oblige, as I thrive off giving her the care she requires. Just a few things I do for her include:

  • Picking her clothes
  • Keeping her hydrated
  • Keeping her fed
  • Keeping her entertained
  • Making sure she is hygienic

I also keep her happy by joining her in activities such as watching TV or doing arts and crafts together. These moments of bonding are beautiful and rewarding within a DDLG relationship. Truthfully, this is why I became a Daddy.

Ultimately, I find that being a Daddy is about giving care and attention to your Little. Be it through a sexual capacity, or a caregiving one, through a physical relationship or a long distance one. The premise behind a DDLG relationship is the same. The Daddy is there to look after the Little in which ever way is necessary and appropriate.